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The speed dating guide

Dating Tips

Seven minutes per date. First impressions form in seconds — make every conversation count.

“First impressions form in under 30 seconds. The seven minutes that follow only confirm what you both felt in that very first moment.”

General Tips
7 tips
01

Dress smart casual – something that makes you feel comfortable and attractive.

02

Try to speak and listen in equal measure.

03

Stay light-hearted. Avoid conversations about past relationships or politics.

04

Good conversation topics: music, films, travel, friends, food, hobbies, passions.

05

Be creative. Try not to ask the same questions every time.

06

Use the name of the person sitting opposite you.

07

Do not answer your phone!

Tailored Advice
  • Keep an open mind and open body language. Maintain eye contact. Most importantly – smile!
  • Be yourself. Try to be relaxed and open.
  • Be respectful and be a gentleman.
  • Leaning slightly forward shows you are interested and paying attention.
  • Tasteful humour is always welcome – everyone loves to laugh!
You can never predict where a speed dating evening might lead. Even if you don't find a romantic match, you may discover a new friend, a professional contact, or someone who later introduces you to exactly the right person. Arrive with an open mind and good energy.
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